Sunday 26 December 2021
Sunday 21 November 2021
Sunday 24 October 2021
Sunday 10 October 2021
Fuzzy fuzzy
Sunday 5 September 2021
Sunday 29 August 2021
Saturday 31 July 2021
Monday 31 May 2021
Killjoy
No
- loud noises
- bright lights
- strong smells
- air-conditioner
- conflict
Lots of
- monologues that begin with 'Ideally...'
- pausing movies to spew ideas and take notes
- 'But that's too frivolous'
- cuddles in the thick of summer
Friday 21 May 2021
Love
Update - 9Jun21
Been regretting the second venn. Specifically, if I had to do it over again, I'd scratch 'my mom' and write 'some folks in my life' in a way that a part of it falls in the second circle and a part in the intersection.
On a related note, there's this interesting model called the Johari window - a couple mental notes on bridging the gulf in understanding:
- When there are things you know about yourself that others don't and you'd like them to, self-disclose/make self-deprecating jokes
- When there are things you know about yourself that others don't and you'd like them not to, what kind of shady shit are you up to?
- To learn things about yourself you don't know, but others might, ask questions/overhear their gossip/pay attention to their jokes about you
- To unearth some great and some appalling stuff about yourself, explore the zone 'stuff about yourself neither you nor others know' (Psychology, art and introspection are great places to start)
- While encountering the above in other people, listen and empathize (I try ðŸ¤)
Tuesday 27 April 2021
Bottomless pit
Also, lovvve these lines by Zadie Smith:
One day this pandemic will be in the past tense. We will look at this time with distance, and sadness, and relief. We will suffer from other things then. [...]
Tuesday 13 April 2021
Rookie mistake
So many thoughts on punitive/retributive justice, outrage and institutions, all reeking of disillusionment, but here's a wry laugh.
Crown heights, Virumandi, Just mercy, The Mauritanian - all good but enraging watches.
Here's an incredible, powerful poem: https://poets.org/poem/crime-and-punishment
Wednesday 31 March 2021
Wednesday 17 March 2021
Wednesday 17 February 2021
Saturday 13 February 2021
Thursday 11 February 2021
The map is not the territory
I've been thinking: while fascination for the sublime, the abstract and the romantic (in the widest sense of the word) makes for a rich and exhilarating inner life, an insane superpower to cultivate would be to experience the thing itself, so to speak, and not feel like it pales miserably in comparison to all the heady stuff.
For a start, it must be nice to be picking up groceries and for the mind to not immediately go to, 'okay so what is all this about anyway?'
Monday 1 February 2021
Monday 18 January 2021
The human condition